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Pono ka makua kāne maʻi nui e hoʻololi i nā diaper makua, a ʻo ke kaikamahine "e kali iā ia": mālama i ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o nā kāne a me nā wahine?ʻO ka mīkini lole lole lole ʻo Jamaica

Pono ka makua kāne maʻi nui e hoʻololi i nā diaper makua, a ʻo ke kaikamahine "e kali iā ia": mālama i ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o nā kāne a me nā wahine?ʻO ka mīkini lole lole lole ʻo Jamaica

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ʻO ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o nā kāne a me nā wahine ua ʻōlelo ʻia ma nā wahi he nui, ʻoi aku ka mea e noʻonoʻo ai nā kaikamahine iā lākou iho.ʻO nā kaikunāne a me nā kaikuahine, ʻo nā makua kāne hoʻi, makemake lākou i kahi ʻano mamao.Ma kekahiʻaoʻao, hiki iā ia ke hoʻonui i nā kaikamāhine, a ma kekahiʻaoʻao, hiki iā ia ke ho'ēmi i ka hanaʻana o nā'āpana "Electra" i nā kaikamāhine, a he mea kōkua hoʻi ia no nā pilina a me nā male e hiki mai ana.

Eia naʻe, pono e loaʻa i nā mea a pau ke kumu a me ka hopena, ʻo ia hoʻi, pono mākou e nānā i ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o nā kāne a me nā wahine, akā ʻaʻole pono mākou e nānā i ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o nā kāne a me nā wahine.No ka laʻana, ʻo kaʻu hoaaloha ʻo Xiaomin, he kahu hānai ma ka haukapila, e hoʻopili pinepine i kekahi mau maʻi kāne., a me kekahi mau wahi pilikino o ka mea maʻi.Inā mālama ʻia ka mea ʻē aʻe ma ke ʻano he kāne ma mua o ka maʻi lapaʻau i kēia manawa, a laila ʻaʻole e hana maikaʻi ʻia ka hana, ʻaʻole hoʻi ʻo ia he kahu hānai kūpono.

He ʻoiaʻiʻo kēia ʻōlelo i ka hana, a paʻa pū kekahi i ke ola.

ʻAʻole i liʻuliʻu, ʻike wau i kahi wikiō pōkole ma Weibo.ʻO ka mea i ʻike ʻia, ua lolo ka makua kāne ʻelemakule a maʻi nui ma kahi moe, ʻaʻole hiki iā ia ke mālama iā ia iho, a pono ʻo ia i ke kōkua o nā poʻe ʻē aʻe e hoʻopau ai.Ma ke ʻano o ka hoʻomaʻemaʻe pilikino, hoʻokomo pū koʻu makuakāne i nā diapers makua, ʻoiai ʻoi aku ka maʻalahi, akā i ke kauwela wela, pono e hoʻololi pinepine ʻia, i ʻole e hōʻoluʻolu loa ia.

Na ke kaikamahine opio i malama i ka makua kahiko ia la.Hiki ke ʻike ʻia ma ka wikiō e moe ana ka ʻelemakule ma luna o ka moena a ʻaʻole hiki ke neʻe, akā ʻaʻole maopopo kona ʻike.Ua wehe ʻia ka quilt ma lalo i kahi kihi, a e ʻaʻahu ana ʻo ia i nā diapers makua i kēia manawa, a ʻo ka pilikia i kēia manawa ʻo ka makemake o ka makuakāne i kahi mea hou, akā ua hilahila ke kaikamahine e pani me kona makuakāne no ka "ʻokoʻa ma waena o nā kāne a me nā wahine", no laila ʻōlelo ʻo ia i kona makuakāne, "ʻAe, ʻaʻole hiki iaʻu ke pani iā ​​ʻoe."

A he mea hilahila loa keia no ka makuakane, aole oia i pane mai, alaila, ninau aku la ke kaikamahine i ka manao o ka makuakane, a ninau mai la, "E hiki anei ia oe ke hoololi?"ʻAʻole naʻe i ʻōlelo ka makua kāne, akā, ma ka hiʻohiʻona o kona mau helehelena, he mea hōʻoluʻolu loa ia.ʻAʻole maopopo iaʻu inā he hōʻoluʻolu i kaʻu kaikamahine ke hoʻololi i nā diapers, a i ʻole nā ​​​​diapers āna e ʻaʻahu nei i kēia manawa?

No laila, pane koke ke kaikamahine: “A laila, mai hoʻololi, e kali wale."A hiki i ka hiki ʻana mai o ke keiki hiapo a ka makua kāne, ʻaʻole ʻo ia i hoʻololi i kahi keiki hou nona.

Ua hoʻāla ʻia kēia hanana i nā manaʻo ikaika mai nā poʻe he nui.E pili ana i ke ʻano o kāna kaikamahine i ka mālama ʻana i ka "ʻokoʻa kāne" i kēia manawa, ua ʻōlelo ka netizen "e lilo i mōʻī": Ua hoʻololi anei kou makuakāne i kou diaper i kou wā kamaliʻi?ʻauʻau?I kēia manawa ke hoʻomaka nei e hoʻokamani.

A ua haʻi ka wahine netizen "ʻano" i ka ʻike o kona kaikunāne no ka mālama ʻana i kona makuahine kahiko: ua moe koʻu makuahine i ʻelua makahiki, a na koʻu kaikunāne i mālama iā ia.Ua hele au i laila i hoʻokahi manawa, a i kēlā me kēia manawa aʻu e hele ai, ua maʻemaʻe a hou koʻu makuahine, a ua hana koʻu kaikunāne i ka hana ʻauʻau, a ʻaʻole kōkua koʻu kaikoʻeke, a inā ʻaʻole wau i noʻonoʻo. ia, aole au e hilahila.

ʻOiai ʻaʻole maopopo iaʻu inā he ʻoiaʻiʻo a ʻaʻole paha ka wikiō, no ka makua kāne ʻelemakule a maʻi nui, ʻo ka hoʻololi ʻana i nā diapers he mea ʻuʻuku wale nō.Eia naʻe, ma nā mea liʻiliʻi wale nō e ʻike ai i ka naʻau o ke kanaka, ke ʻano o ke kanaka, a me ke ʻano o ke aloha a me ke aloha.

No ka hoʻopuka pololei ʻana, pono nā mākua i kā lākou mau keiki e mālama iā lākou i ko lākou wā ʻelemakule.Ua like kēia me ka pono o nā keiki i ko lākou mau mākua e mālama iā lākou i ko lākou wā'ōpiopio a me ka naʻaupō.I kēlā manawa, ʻaʻohe ʻokoʻa o nā mākua ma waena o nā kāne a me nā wahine no kā lākou mau keiki, ʻaʻole lākou makemake iā lākou.A laila, ʻaʻole pono nā keiki kāne a me nā wahine ke ulu lākou.ʻO ka ʻokoʻa, a makemake ʻole paha i ka manaʻo o nā mākua, ma hope o nā mea a pau, "Ua hānai wau iā ʻoe e ulu, hele pū ʻoe me aʻu i ka wā ʻelemakule", ʻo ia ke kumu kumu e pono ai nā mākua a me nā keiki.

Eia kekahi, he maʻi nui ka makua kāne, a pono ke kaikamahine i kāna mālama pono ʻana i kona wā e noho pū ai me ia.Ua mākaukau ʻoe no kēia ma mua o ka hiki ʻana mai, i ʻole, he aha ke ʻano o ka mālama ʻana i ka makua kāne?ʻO ke kamaʻilio wale ʻana a hoʻopau i ka wai?

ʻO kaʻu mea e ʻike ai mai ka hopohopo o ka wahine, ʻaʻole ia ka hilahila o "ka ʻokoʻa ma waena o nā kāne a me nā wahine", akā ʻo ke kaumaha o "ʻaʻohe keiki keiki ma mua o ka moe no ka manawa lōʻihi".Inā aloha ʻoe i kou makuakāne, a laila, ʻaʻohe mea kānalua i kēia mea, ʻoiai hiki ke ʻae ʻia ka makua kāne i ka ʻoluʻolu, a laila ʻaʻohe pilikia a me ka luhi o ke ola, ʻaʻole ia he pilikia.

ʻO ka ʻoiaʻiʻo, ua ʻōlelo kekahi poʻe he makemake nui ka makua kāne i ka hanohano a ʻaʻole makemake kāna kaikamahine e hana i kēia mau mea.I koʻu lohe ʻana i kēia kumu, ʻo kaʻu pane mua ʻana he mamao loa.Loaʻa paha i ka makua kāne kēia noʻonoʻo.Eia naʻe, ma ke ʻano he keiki ola, inā hiki iā ia ke hana i kēia mau mea no ʻoe iho, a laila ʻoi aku ka manaʻo o ka hauʻoli ma mua o ka hilahila.ʻOi aku kēia ʻano o ka ʻoluʻolu a me ka hauʻoli i nā mea hoʻohui a me nā ʻōlelo maikaʻi.ʻO kēia ʻano haipule ʻohana ka mea e makemake nui ai koʻu makuakāne i kēia manawa.

ʻO ka ulu ʻana o ke kanaka, he mea maʻamau ia i ka maʻi ʻana o ka mea aloha, a ʻo ke keiki kāne ʻaʻohe mea hana e lilo i kāne nona iho, a ʻo ke kaikamahine palupalu e like me ka wai, lilo ia i kia. hiki ke hilinai., Ke manao nui nei no hoi au i keia, a o ka elemakule a me ka nawaliwali he loulou hiki ole ke hoolele ia, no laila, hiki i ka manao o na makua ke ma'i nui ke pili i ka lakou mau keiki, ina no oe wale no. ʻano mehana a mehana.

I mua o ko mākou mau mākua, ʻaʻohe ʻokoʻa ma waena o nā kāne a me nā wahine, ʻaʻohe hilahila.ʻO lākou wale nō ko mākou pili koko, a ʻo mākou wale nō kā lākou mau keiki ma ka honua.ʻOiai lākou i ke olakino maikaʻi, e ʻoi aku ke aloha a mālama i ko lākou olakino lōʻihi, a inā ʻo ka maʻi ke kuleana o ke keiki.Mai kali a nalowale nā ​​mea a pau a mihi.A laila ua lohi loa.


Ka manawa hoʻouna: ʻAukake-10-2022